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bradt1977

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  • Andrewisgreat
    Whose the rookie now
    September 2015
  • karamelakimo
    I miss your action in the forum !
    August 2015
  • Muppet_Lover
    Oh my god you are banned? How long! Noooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    July 2015
  • benisforawesome
    noooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo
    July 2015
  • MrsBeAvIs
    Ah yes the old easy out. When things get heated just deny, accept no responsibility and run to the nearest divorce court. It's sad to see that no one seems to take marriage seriously.
    July 2015
  • MrsBeAvIs
    He says he's moving out on Saturday and we signed papers that have been filled with the court. They said it would be 5-7 weeks before we go in front of the judge for him to sign off on the divorce. :(
    July 2015
  • MrsBeAvIs
    Well as much as I appreciate that, it's a cop out. I deserve for him to be the husband he agreed to be.
    Heres an example of my frustration, he made comments about you showing your wife the poop pics and stuff and then praises Her for her being cool however Im never allowed to be "the cool wife" because I'm always excluded from his world.
    July 2015
  • MrsBeAvIs
    Actually I've been through several of these different addictions with him and the truth is he wont agree with me because he's very prideful and if he admitted it then he fears he would have to make a change or do these things in moderation and that's not going to happen.
    It's easy to say I'm tired of the same **** over and over but if you ( meaning him) continhes to keep doing the same thing, just a different addiction, then nothing will change.
    It always comes back to the same thing for me, I'm not always happy with the things he does but I always love him.
    I don't believe any of this would have been a true issue had he not gone to such great lengths to lie and hide things. How can you have trust when you're going out of your way to sneak around and lie and then have the nerve to get mad when your caught.
    July 2015
  • MrsBeAvIs
    I'm not a needy women and I'm far from romantic, neither of those are my thing however I do need want and desire a relationship with my husband. For the past 8 years he's been the most important part of my life and I still feel that way today.
    July 2015
  • MrsBeAvIs
    His denial. Come on Brad I was logged on to that private chat from the time we got to the beach until the day I blew my cover. Anyways I was trying to talk to him about his birthday dinner and he was so rude and nasty to me and claimed he was busting his **** working. That particular Day he actually had 2 hours of unscheduled time and he was blowing up the chat group not knowing that I was reading along. Add the time he's on the chat with you, the time he spends writing his story, the time he spends playing the game and work time and ask yourself where exactly I fit in? I'm not asking you to take sides I'm just saying look at it from my side.
    July 2015
  • MrsBeAvIs
    Of course it's easier to deny. All is well. Carry on.
    July 2015
  • MrsBeAvIs
    Well when I originally joined you put yourself in the middle of it but I'm sure Joe has now convinced you that we've been so unhappy for so long and you believe it. It's all good, he's your boy you got his back but I know the truth. I know that all couples have issues and our issues could have been easily resolved but one of us found the private chats and the "stories" more important and the other had no say in "our future".
    Anyways, I think you're a pretty funny guy and I do appreciate the fact that in the beginning you were rather neutral and offered some type of help/support.
    At this point I'd like to refrain from any and all joebeavis conversations and keep it on the lighter side if that's ok.
    July 2015
  • MrsBeAvIs
    I'm not mad at you @bradt1977, you were given the material to work with and that is not your fault. I deleted my comments on the thread as no good has come out of any of this
    July 2015
  • MrsBeAvIs
    I don't care to get into a long debate with you as I'm sure joe has had much to say on his private chat but here's something you should know. While you think making comments like that is funny, you don't understand how impressionable he is and while you guys cheer him on he doesn't realize that you guys are actually trying to have a somewhat functional relationship with your wife, children etc.
    At the end of it all we are now getting divorced over one of he stupidest things ever. Yes Joe will say there's more to it and there is. We have the same arguments about the same stuff but that's because the same behavior continues. It's all fun and games to y'all but yet I'm the one who's heartbroken because my husband ultimately picked a bunch of strangers and a chat group over the one person who actually loves him.
    July 2015
  • bvs72
    They finally cleaned up your dump.
    July 2015
  • MrsBeAvIs
    They take their job of patrolling way too serious!
    June 2015
  • MrsBeAvIs
    Because I'm awesome like that!!!!
    June 2015
  • MrsBeAvIs
    Ha hahahahaha Another bites the dust :)
    June 2015
  • MrsBeAvIs
    I need to apologize in advance as I'm not sure if ish__ is your friend but I'm about to show him that Mrs. Beavis can be a troll.
    June 2015
  • MrsBeAvIs
    Thank you now instead of saying those nice things to strangers in a thread, that by all accounts, I would never know about, I would think it would be much better if he said nice things to his wife. Don't get me wrong I don't mind if he talked to you privately about my Crohns, no big deal I want him to have friends I just don't want a repeat of his "real friend" who he's made to believe that I'm horrible :( Every relationship has problems but why he feels the need to make people in his world think I'm a bad person is beyond me.
    June 2015
  • MrsBeAvIs
    Funny because he claims that he's never talked to you about personal stuff other then on the board when it was mentioned that your wife has Crohns but it doesn't matter apparently based on all that I've read there's a lot of issues that I wasn't aware of. Like I said before we have our circle of his patterns but he's never to my knowledge done something like this and again keep in mind Divorce is his go to not mine.
    June 2015
  • MrsBeAvIs
    It was the pregnancy and medical stuff that never should have hit this bored. I don't like my personal stuff put out there like that. My Facebook has people on it that I know and trust and I'm even limited as to what I say on there. Yes I update my friends and family about my stuff but that's my stuff, my people and it's people that know and care about me not a bunch of gamers getting a good laugh at my expense.
    June 2015
  • MrsBeAvIs
    Well, I pi**ed a couple of people off and it really wasn't about getting everyone else involved it was more about me feeling like I had to defend myself, crazy I know but that's just who I am. If you get to know me and you don't like me, I'm fine with that but I'm not fine with people talking sh** about me based on lies. I don't deny that he did say some nice things but sadly the bad things far outweighed the good and my feelings belong to me and no one has the right to tell me how I should feel about what he did (meaning him) I don't think he intended to hurt me, hell he didn't intend on me ever knowing he said those things but that's the crappy thing about karma, it bites back but even being, I'm still the bad guy and that's ok. If you knew him, really knew him you would know there was a lot of truth hidden in his insults but again those I can handle, because believe me I've heard them many times before.
    June 2015
  • I didn't really get in trouble...just wanted to make it sound funny. I posted while she was shopping. Well, I hope you guys figure out what you both want. If nothing else, you've made this day very interesting.
    June 2015
  • MrsBeAvIs
    Ah man... Happy Anniversary and what the heck are you thinking? This is his issue, not that I don't appreciate your input but it's not worth sacrificing your wife's feelings when he 's not the least bit concerned about the situation. Trust me when I tell you, he's doing the happy dance over this. Of course he'll come home "mad" and lock himself in his man cave and then he can zone out on games and forums all weekend. I laughed so hard when someone asked if I put him in time out, I don't have to he looks for reasons to put himself there so he's not disturbed.... shhhh don't tell him I know he does it on purpose :)
    June 2015
    • MrsBeAvIs
      MrsBeAvIs
      Instead of moving back and forth on pages, why not just comment the reply in the box below?
  • MrsBeAvIs
    Prime example, why are you here fighting for our marriage and yet he's no where to be found. Although I'm sure he's having a great time with this on his **** account.
    June 2015
  • MrsBeAvIs
    I've always know that but he wants the divorce not me and I just don't have the energy to keep fighting for us when he's always fighting against us.
    June 2015
  • MrsBeAvIs
    He has and he's made it clear, he lives for the attention he gets from these strangers, just like he lived for the attention he used to get from the guitar forum strangers, it consumes him and like I told him, instead of working so hard to impress people that mean nothing, why not just put a little bit of effort into your marriage. He should want to be my hero first. He has no issues taking the time to fight for what he believes you guys deserve from this game, he has no problems writing a sincere apology, to some company for his bad actions but he will divorce his wife to convince himself that he did nothing wrong and that's sad. A little bit would go a long way.
    June 2015
  • MrsBeAvIs
    and by effort I mean any type of communication or an type of emotional stuff.
    June 2015
  • MrsBeAvIs
    Well then isn't it fair to say if you want to be a loner then you shouldn't have gotten married? What's the point in him having me? Because I don't understand and I really don't buy it because I've known him since 2007 and we weren't like this, he was my best friend for 2 years before I would even date him. At the end of it all I think he just thinks that he can put us on auto pilot and him not have to put any effort into our relationship and if it works great, if it's doesn't.... oh well :(
    June 2015