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MrsBeAvIs

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  • Muppet_Lover
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    January 2016
  • Emperor_Madkat
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    January 2016
  • bread_krum
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    December 2015
  • Muppet_Lover
    Hey, glad to see you're back!
    October 2015
  • Muppet_Lover
    No, it's not you or anyone else. MC sent an email to my mother saying I've been using bad words and that I could possibly be banned forever. It's also my mother, she makes my life MUCH, MUCH worser than a living hell every day.
    July 2015
  • Muppet_Lover
    Oh.
    July 2015
  • Muppet_Lover
    Well, that's rude.
    July 2015
  • Muppet_Lover
    Because @rak is really the only person who posts on my wall ( apart from me ) and I needed a change of person....
    July 2015
  • Muppet_Lover
    Feelin half excited/half bad today!
    July 2015
  • Muppet_Lover
    Hi Mrs B
    July 2015
  • bradt1977
    I'm not saying it's right...it's certainly not what I would do. But I'm not Joe.
    July 2015
  • bradt1977
    Personally, I'm a big fan of Joe's. But maybe you really do deserve better, as he said himself.
    July 2015
  • bradt1977
    If he's not willing to realize this and/or change, then what's next?
    July 2015
  • bradt1977
    Maybe he does know these things and knows he's not going to change. The one thing he always says is that you deserve better.
    July 2015
  • bradt1977
    I absolutely see it from your side. In fact, I had to quit playing the game because between the chatting and the game, it was taking up way too much of my time. But if you noticed, I chat just about as much as anyone in ****. I just sneak it in when I can without getting in trouble. I do it at work and later in the night when I'm the only one up, for the most part. The thing here is that it doesn't matter if I understand it...it matters if Joe does. And there's not much I can do in that regard. He knows what you think about it and he feels differently about it.
    July 2015
  • bradt1977
    Deny what?
    July 2015
  • bradt1977
    To be honest, when this came about before, I listened to what both of you had to say and tried to help. I was neutral before and I'm neutral now. Does Joe say it's more than just the ****? Yes, and that's all he says about it. Even when you hijacked the **** thread, I tried to help. All I can tell you is that you and Joe are on completely different pages and nothing I can say will help resolve anything. You think it's one thing and he thinks it's another. I have no opinion either way and, quite honestly, it doesn't matter what my opinion is. I wish I could help, but I now see that I can't. As far as keeping it light, I've been posting pics of my poop all day, so that's fine with me...lol.
    July 2015
  • bradt1977
    I'm also not trying to step on anyone's toes or get in the middle of anything. Whatever happened with you two is between you two. I just wish the best of luck to the both of you.
    July 2015
  • bradt1977
    Believe it or not, Joe doesn't really discuss it in the chat. And obviously, I only now a small part of what's happened with you guys. I'm not taking anyone's side, as I'm sad that it's come to this. All I can tell you is that I go to the **** chat to get some laughs and have some fun. I don't try to make any kind of impression on joe...we just try to make each other laugh. Do I make some of these jokes in poor taste? You betcha. But I mean no ill will towards anyone.
    July 2015
  • bradt1977
    I think you killed two threads at once.
    June 2015
  • Muppet_Lover
    * random Anil song *
    It's the Anil song ( repeat 1,000,000 times )
    June 2015
  • minh_74
    MrsBeAvis,
    All I know of you and JoeBeavis is what on this forum ( that is, next to nothing). Something tells me though, that the threat of divorce is just that- a threat. Something to buy Mr Beavis ( the person behind the persona) some time to figure out where he stands and how he wants to handle things. I say this, because there was a time in our marriage where my wife and I would throw around the "D" word when we felt way over our heads during an argument. We eventually got past this stratagem when we realize that neither of us ever really want a divorce and that it hurts the other person too deeply to hear it.
    As I said, I don't really know either of you, so I don't honesty know how serious Mr Beavis is about divorce. But from the honest love that I read in your and JoeBeavis' posts, I think there a real good chance that the two of you will be able to work things out between yourselves.
    Best of luck to you both and may your future be as bright as your smile.
    June 2015
  • ktrio730
    I 100% understand that it crossed a line and deeply offended you, but remember that he did not know you would be reading this. That is very important. The lines between men in personal conversations are very thin, and not many even care if they cross it. If he knew you were reading these and still made those comments, then he truly is a wang and a deplorable person, but he didn't. He was entertaining the audience. Should he have left something that personal out? Of course, I don't think even Joe could argue that. But that's the way he is, for better or worse, at least in his persona, and that's what makes him a magnetic force on the forums that people are drawn to. The couneling thing is a private matter obviously, but maybe try dragging his @ss out to one. He might find that it's not as bad as it seems, and may actually enjoy being able to talk to you in a setting where you can't "nag" him. If you do stick around, this is a funny place to shoot the shi t. Welcome.
    June 2015
  • ktrio730
    Don't be sorry about blowing up the forums, honestly the way things have been the past few weeks we needed a jolt! haha I get what you're saying about the personal stuff. I'm assuming it was a painful (both physically and mentally) experience for you and something that you deem untouchable. I am also very sorry for that, my wife went through a similar experience and it devastated her for a long time. I won't presume to guess at how Joe felt about it, and this is not an excuse, but the way I always looked at comments like that, either self-depreciating or against a wife/family member is that for a comic, nothing is out of bounds for his audience. Maybe that was his way of dealing with the loss? Introverted people do some funny and awkward things sometimes to make up for crappy or stressful situations in their lives.
    June 2015
  • bradt1977
    I, personally, never thought you were a bad person from things he's said.
    June 2015
  • bradt1977
    Actually, that's the part I'm talking about...when I mentioned my wife has crohns. That's the only time he's mentioned your medical problems...uh...aside from some ill timed jokes. All I can say is that he never meant any harm, although I can understand why you'd be upset. While Joe is known on this forum for his poop and pen1s jokes, he's also known for deeply caring about you. I know you need him to show that...I'm just telling you what we've seen in the forum.
    June 2015
  • bradt1977
    I can understand that. Joe and I have had some real conversations about what you and my wife have gone through, medically speaking, and there were no jokes there. And while I kid about my wife, I'd probably not joke about something serious that happened with her, medically. If it was this one instance, I'd ask you to cut joe some slack, but it seems this goes deeper than that.
    June 2015
  • ktrio730
    Just wanted to stop by to ackowledge that this was a brilliant way to get the attention of your husband, if you can't by other means. Props to that. Obviously your a smart gal and pick up on things quick. You honestly should consider playing the game haha. When, not if, you and Joe figure things out, this might be a fun way for you guys to spend some time together, and it sure as hell would be a blast for the forums!

    Even though I don't know you at all, some of the conversations I just read through has opened my eyes a bit, as I'm having similar issues with my wife (although I never participated in the **** wife series). I can generally see through a lot of the bs in life, and I think I'm pretty decent at being able to judge a persons character even through a persona. I think you and Joe obviously have had issues outstanding for a long time now, and this is one of those tipping points. Joe did use real life examples for some of his jokes, but I genuinely believe he did it
    June 2015
  • ktrio730
    as a means of venting privately in an anonymous fashion. I totally get why you would feel hurt, but I can guarentee you even though they were personal and private things, he did not mean ill will towards you. In fact, the impression I always got from Joe was that he loved and respected you tremendously. He put himself down on many occasions, saying how he didn't deserve you, way better looking (obv sorry Joe), etc.

    As you well know, life is a ****. There are many stressors and tension constantly building inside of people. Just like brad had said about being a little socially awkward, the internet provides a means for people to act and be a different personality that life or social disorders prevent them from being. I advise the both of you to seek counseling asap, as I believe that will open BOTH of your eyes to things you both are currently blind too. It is a two way street as you said, and I'm sure you realize their are probably things you could be doing differently as well
    June 2015
  • ktrio730
    to make the situation better. It seems you both want more from each other, but don't know how to communicate that properly to each other. This happens, but if you find a way through it it will make you guys 5 years from now look back and laugh at this whole fiasco. Find a good counselor, one that you both can respect, and there is no reason it cannot heal the wounds not just from here, but in real life as well. Cheers and good luck!
    June 2015